Aye chihuahua! It's the nature/nurture puzzle again!
As long as we (the human race, not just us trannies here) have been obsessing over this, nobodie's ever come up with a satisfactoy theory that all can agree on or be tested scientifically. We'll never know! And that's not a bad thing.
Any question as to motivation can probably be answered eventually for fish or fowl or beast. But when you throw a soul into the mix, you complicate the problem by a factor of googel.
The variabilities in personalities and motivations for humans is a total unknowable mix of nature and nurture. And trying to answer any question about gender using a theory based on a binary system only is a waste of time.
We are all much more than a sum of our nature parts and nurture parts. The soul is capable of infinite variation, infinite. There is no fathoming the mind of God.
We are who we are because it pleases Her to keep the pot stirred. That way she doesn't get bored with us and we don't get bored with each other.
Don't stress over trying to find out WHY you are what you are. Do your best to find out WHO you are in the great wide universe. That path leads to inner peace.
respect and love (for the search, not just the searchers),
deja
