I think part of our problem with society is that we have too much to loose! When you say you could loose your family and job if it's found out you are a CDr...that my friends is a large price to pay!
The gays and lesbeins didn't get recognized over night. It took decades and decades. Who among us has the fortitude to step out and say I'm a CDr and I feel good about it and here is what people like me do. We are not perverts, molesters, sexual deviates we are just men that prefers women's clothing. We feel we have a right to choose to dress the way we want. As does any other citizen of this world.
Things like that are going to have to happen over and over and over again until it is assimilated in to the consciousness of everyone that there is nothing to fear from us. We are normal just like everyone else. Who will our champion be?