Where do we stand sexually?

[Jada Rose]

Kinda hard to explain. Sometimes I'll see a man that I find attractive, maybe even let my mind wander, but I couldn't bring myself to do anything. Not because of fear or embarrassment, but rather for the fact that I love my wife exclusively. For me, any other relationship, male or female, would feel like cheating, even though she has told me numerous times that she would be ok with it. Maybe straight with Bi tendencies?

[Amanda0208]

I am a happily married bisexual. If I had to identify, it would be a definite preference towards women with a sexual interest in men. I realy don't think I could ever be in a relatioship with a man. but sexually its all good

[María José]

Bisexual. Only boys when dressed.

[Sophia KT]

I've just realised that after straight, bi is the most popular call on this poll.


Cool, I feel like one of us.

[Bilinda]

I've written a lot of blog articles about the whole CD sexuality thing. I even know some adult webmasters who think they know what it's all about. The truth is CD's are lots of different people with lots of different taste,, uh,, so to speak!!

I'm more or less straight, but if we had a big party, I was dressed in my schoolgirl outfit, some gay guys were there, I was drunk,,, I could see something happening. I guess I'm bi-curious. Most CD's are straight, a lot are bi, very few IMO are gay.

Even the guys who like ********/ladyboys consider themselves to be straight, figure that out!

[Samantha43]

Any straighter and my wife would be able to use me as a ruler for the kids' homework!


jenn

Crossdressing is not a sexually stimulating thing for me, it is more of a release. An enjoyable activity. I don't change the way I think or act. It was a sexual turn on when I was younger, but now it is a place I can go that is all about me. A place to go where I can escape the pressures of being a father, husband, employee, coach....etc.

[Jamee]

I am attracted to GG's and Tgirls. I'm not attracted to guys at all.
Most of the guys that I have met usally want sex and are very pushy
about it. Through dressing up, I have dicovered how sensual GG's are
and also the Tgirls that I have been with over the years and enjoy this
approach more. I can see why GG's complain about how fast men are.
They want the experience to last longer than 10 minutes. I have been
with a couple of men in my experimentation days but it never did
any thing for me. When I have been with a GG or Tgirl, I have
found it much more enjoyable.

[CLARRISA]

When in guy mode i fancy women 100% my head only ever turns when an attractive girl walks by..when i'm dressed as a women i still fancy women and my head still turns to them, however, the thought of being wined/dined and ravished by a man thats been taken in by my feminine charms is one i can't deny, it would kind of validate me as a women.

[~Seana~]

I just realized when looking at the poll that if you add up all the other groups besides strait which all contain at least some bisexuality to them, that bisexuality and or gay account for 42.25% of us. That is an astounding number. And that doesnt include some presumably who have fantasies but consider themselves strait because they are married and dedicated to that person. That really is a huge percentage overall, and I think gives some insight into our psychology. It's definitely more than the societal average, so while it's not safe to say all CD's are gay or bi, it does seem to be fair to say there is a greater perpensity amoung crossdressers to be gay or bisexual than is represented in society as a whole. Not a popular opinion I'm certain, but nonetheless it's what the numbers are showing here. Astounding.

Amanda

[MichelleOBrien]

personally, I'll do anything I can feel an attraction to, as long as they are human, living, and between 21 and 35 years old (I'm 23, so no perv here!). However, if in a relationship, it doesn't matter, because my partner, regardless of their sex, will either fulfill all my needs as I fulfill theirs, or we'll walk away friends and not look back.

butlike you said, to each their own, right?

[T_gurl_tia]

i am totally bisexual (sexualy) wheather dressed or en-drab....and really feel i am 50/50 with the only difference being that i dont think i could ever be "married" to a man.....dont know if that really makes sence.......but it does in my own lil world

[tvbeckytv]

for me i find im only a complete rounded person as a tranny. in guy mode, i dont really have any interest in anybody. fortunately, im tranny on a daily basis, and then im 100% gay, and only for masculine men.

[Rebecca-L]

Completely and irrevocably straight.

I truly love my wife and am committed to our marriage (42 years).

Yes, crossdressing is important to me, but my wife does not share that view, so it is something that I can only do when I am lucky enough to have the opportunity.

[Amy Hepker]

I am Heterosexual, not gay, I can't stand to be around gross guys. I have many CD friends though, that I enjoy being around, but not for sex.

[Annie D]

If we met one another and you told me you were straight......who cares!
If we met one another and you told me you were gay.......who cares!
If we met one another and you told me you were bi........who cares!

The only people who care are the people who feel that they have to confess their sexuality. You don't have to apologize about you hetersexuality, you don't have to apologize for your homosexuality, you don't have to apologize about your bisexuality.

Although I have thought that it was important to make a disclaimer, I have decided that it is better to not kiss and tell. My relationship with another person is our business.

[Raychel]

"Where do we stand sexually? "

I don't "stand" usually I'm horizontal ...

I guess I would have to aggree with Phyllis.

[Bilinda]

Just for a fun fact, I have a whole page of crossdresser polls in my transgender blog. One of them is "What is your sexual orientation?"

I have 53 votes for straight, 39 for bisexual, 15 for not sure yet and 6 for gay. I should have also had "bi-curious", I bet that would have had a lot of votes.

Also 53% said they are married, 28% said single.

[jaina]

It's definitely more than the societal average, so while it's not safe to say all CD's are gay or bi, it does seem to be fair to say there is a greater perpensity amoung crossdressers to be gay or bisexual than is represented in society as a whole. Not a popular opinion I'm certain, but nonetheless it's what the numbers are showing here. Astounding.

Amanda

No, Its never a popular observation and often shouted down.
The poll numbers hold up every time there is a poll here or other sites. Even with an atempt to inflate the "strait" results by breaking up everything else into tiny catagories, the numbers never pass 60%. 60% IS most, but not in the connotation that many like to portray. A significant portion of the crossdressing community is not strait. That fact won't go away.

[Emily Anderson]

Put it this way. Most CD's have a hard enough time admitting they like dressing in female garb, and a lot declare "I am not gay" as their first statement when coming out... I think this suggests that a lot of CD's have a hard time admitting quite what they feel and what they really want... And I can understand that.

Still, I would say that indeed a large percentage are indeed either gay, bi, or latent homo/bi, and even more than the polls suggest.

[BevinJax]

I'm decidedly bisexual, and my wife knows that. When I'm with her, I'm very much a man, but sometimes I just need to be a complete woman, and there's only one way to get that. It doesn't happen often (enough), but I love it when it does.

Bev

[Tomara]

I voted straight , In male mode I love women and in female mode I love women so I guess in female mode I would be a lesbian and that would make me bi. I really dont think it matters what other people think of your sexuality as long as you are comfortable with who YOU are. Tomara cd

[chrissy_crossdresser]

i consider myself bi-curious

[jessielee]

dear Staycee,
we seem to live on the edge of such a gray area.
yes, i'm straight and i read the stats that say most of us are. however, i want very much to feel lovely, attractive, desirable. i want guys to approve of my presentation. but i don't want to kiss them or be kissed by them!
don't want to be a tease, either. its so confusing.
and,
some of you dressers are so enticingly appealing,
i do register natural male arousal.
all this on top of my core stand of wishing i'd been born female
or that i could be magically transformed at which time i'd still want to be with GGs.
no double standard intended, ever.
just attempting honest appraisal.
we stand on the edge of unknown territory.
and some of you are boldly venturing into it.
it feels like evolution,
gradual transformation,
of our species?
are we on the cutting edge without knowing it?
just a butterfly,
jessie

[Melissa Cross]

I'm a heterosexual who loves dressing as a woman.

[tamela bell]

100% hetero