I think that it is a bit unfair to say that a lot of masculine thing can be seen as negative do i have to remind you that there are people on there that want to be masculine are you saying they have to be come negative to achieve that , you have the two ends of the spectrum, very masculine to very feminine and then everything in between none of it being positive or negative, you do not need to be out of balance to be anywhere on that scale , and i will still say that femininity comes from the inside, but the clothes can act like a placebo they have made you believe that you are feminine which yes that is a good thing because it makes you feel good about your self.
Have you ever seen a male and said to yourself he looks feminine, well he might hate it and no matter what he doe`s he will not be able to loose it because it is in he a part of him no matter what he wears or doe`s , the same can work for a masculine female , it comes from your inner body your life spirit not your Brian as that can be altered and controlled.
ok so i am mad:D
joanne