I have been reluctant in going anywhere dressed. I have this discussion with my wife and we are thinking I could go to a large meeting like Southern Comfort or something maybe after retirement. The thought of being outed is not very pleasant for me and I would be very humiliated if it ever happened. My big question is what happens when you meet outside of the group. If you are all from the same place odds are you will meet again and I'm just curious about of what happens. There are some very vindictive people and they love to see others suffer. It's just a thought and maybe I am sometimes a bit paranoid, but still I can't help from wondering.
Jeannie.