Very true in what you say. I've just begun feeling comfy about going out. Am I great, do I pass? Probably not but I'm being true to myself and having fun doing it. I'll pick my places and know that I'll be accepted as such. Same with shopping, Yes it is for me, is it ok to try it on or be measured. I never thought I'd say those words but after doing it once and the sky not falling and realizing that cash is king now I do. Thanks to all you on the site and my friend Sal I am trully being myself.