Actually dann, if your wife is sooo negative about your dressing, you'd better not ask for her old stuff ever.
She'd feel as violated as a rape victim if she knew you were wearing it for your "perverse" obsession. That's why she dumped it so fast. And so obviously... It sounds like she already feels somewhere near that.
You guys need a lot more communication before you're ever gonna get even to the stage of mere tolerance. And even a slightly selfish, me-first, show of attitude on your part is gonna set her off again.
Think about how this has hurt her instead of the few measly dollars you might have saved by scrounging her cast-offs.
Sorry this sounds harsh, hun, but that's how it reads to me.
Cool your jets a little, dann baby, the world is full of clothes!
