No wonder Dann doesn't post often. Such responses! It's a shame, it really is.

Dann, my wife is accepting, and has known for 32 years. Yet when it comes to her giving me clothes she no longer wears, or giving it to charity, it goes to charity.

They are still her clothes until dropped off elsewhere, and she never wants to see me in her clothes.

I suggest, if there is something you want that's she's disposing with the SA, just go to the SA and see if you can buy it back. They aren't expensive. And the few buck you'll spend gets put to good use.