Quote Originally Posted by dann View Post
To be called "the most selfish person on this forum" by an administrator is very disheartening. But then again, I don't need to be handled with kid gloves. if we want to pull punches like that around here (which I don't ever recall it being that way) so be it. I won't be back.
Excuse me, but I'm also a member and I found your post very selfish, you even admitted you were being selfish, but I'm the bad one for pointing it out. What I haven't read from you, is about members calling your wife a selfish so and so, which you can read back, I've quoted it many times in this thread, but you've yet to say anything to them, not even named them, but you put me right up there as being the bad one in the whole thread. I stood up for your wife after members of this forum were rude about her, I defended her, but still I'm the bad person. I'm so sick of having my administrator position pulled into threads all the time, having to defend myself here all the time, for saying something that was true, but hey, it's ok for others to call your wife names... and you say nothing about that, what kind of person does that make you?

I still can't help but to think that there was at least a shred of malice in the way she did what she did with those clothes.
Malice? seriously? They are just clothes, you seem to be having some kind of tantrum about the whole thing, are you an adult, or are you a child? Because to me, you seem to be behaving like a child who's had their toys taken away. They are her clothes, to do with as she see's fit and do you really think she's going to be giving you her clothes when she so obviously has real issues with your CD'ing? Can you really not see how this comes across?

What I post might be harsh, it might feel like I've just slapped you right in the face, but you obviously aren't thinking about how your wife is feeling and you're putting your CD'ing first, before her feelings. You've said it yourself, she is so far in denial about the whole thing, yet you think she should have given you her clothes... there is something seriously wrong with that. As harsh as that sounds, you tell me if that isn't the truth, tell me I'm lying...