Crossdressers in a Lesbian Bar...

[Valeria]

I've gone to Lesbian joints quite a few times and occasionally have hooked up but I wouldn't go to one with that expectation---usuually are looking for a different kind of plumbing---one thing you can be sure of though is that you will be one of the prettiest girls there.

Umm, no. There are plenty of hot looking dykes - way hotter than most CDs. With all due respect to the people that post here, I've never been in a lesbian bar where the average patron didn't look better than the average male CD (judged as a woman).

Many women like transsexuals with breast and if you are a cute crossdresser some will like you but I find that women say they "want some one who is more committed to the life style"

If by "transsexuals with breast", you mean trans females who have developed breasts, then yes. Obviously. Lots of lesbian trans females end up with a lesbian cis female as their life partner - although some lesbians are transphobic.

This doesn't have much to do with the topic of this thread, however.

company & sexual partner are two different things.

Indeed.

I have a life partner, but if I didn't I'd only be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with another woman. Cis or trans wouldn't matter (though if trans and pre-op, it would probably be sexually awkward until they had surgery). But I'd have absolutely no interest in dating a male crossdresser - I'd much rather date a butch woman, though my normal preference is femme. I'm interested in the person, not the clothes, and I'm exclusively attracted to other women. It's as simple as that, and lots of dykes feel similarly (though many of us have preferences for how femme or butch our partner is).