Really sorry to hear about this, and I sincerely hope it works out .
It's not very clear from your post what has happened in the six years between her discovery and now... What has your communication been like, particularly on the topic of crossdressing? What kind of CD'ing activities have you been involved in? How has the relationship been otherwise?
You don't need to answer the quetions, of course. I'm just curious as to what brings one to this point after six years...