I'm widowed, but just let me say that most GGs plain are more girly than most of us all dressed. Yes, we may wear more skirts, hose, make-up, but that is because we have to, they don't.
My wife would wear longer hippie skirts or jeans and look fem in them. She had good taste in clothes for dressy occasions and I'm lucky enough that now that she is gone I've held onto the things that she liked and that fit me also. The dress that I wore to the wedding was hers and I received compliments on it including one girl who asked where I bought it from. Also we choose what and how we dress. If I had to wear a bra, stockings, and make up every day it wouldn't be the same thrill, it would then become a chore just like us shaving everyday.
