True femininity, what does it mean for you?

[Aurora27]

As a woman who grew up primarily with men, I found that being feminine was, in essence, being sensual. The more sensual the movements, tone of voice, actions, etc. the more feminine one seemed to appear.

I was trying to figure out how to put an answer into words but thats pretty much it. To me being purely sexual has always seemed a bit hollow and vulgar, but sensuality implies a beauty and grace and confidence that I always associate with femininity and vise versa.

I've never really associated femininity with having 'feminine' fabrics on my skin - sure it feels great but true femininity runs much deeper - I don't think its something that can be taught fully and as a male I don't think there is any chance I can ever achieve it.

Man have always fought over women (at least in our recent culture) and I think to a degree femininity is this ability to make men act like idiots.