For those who wish to go out and about, support groups can be a terrific first stepping stone. I made rounds through several groups in SoCal back in the early to mid 90's and my experiences were overwhelmingly positive. It just so happens that the groups I gravitated towards were not as "secure" as Tri-Ess and in fact more inclusive to all along the gender spectrum which was important to me. And this lack of secure attendance has never been a problem. I have yet to encounter an "admirer" at a function and no other TG individuals have hit on me. But it really depends on what one is looking for. For some, the heightened security of a Tri-Ess group might be what is required for them to enter the outside world as a woman.
I went dormant as far as outings go in the late 90's and out of the blue I resumed in 2006. Only one of the three groups I had visited before was still in existence. They welcomed me back and right away I made a couple great friends who have given me a whole new perspective on the joys of going out (ie - much more enjoyable doing so with friends than alone).
And another comment on groups. I think calling them social groups is a better term. One can find as much or as little support that is needed among the friendships that can develop. In other words, you don't have to be in need of support to enjoy the experience.
