Here is something that might be interesting... I "joined" an online group at 'meetups.com'. I posted that I was a CD'er looking to meet others like me. All of the responses I got were men trying to "be with me". You should see some of the emails! Although I'm very flattered, why is it because I dress like a woman do I actually want to be a woman? Don't get me wrong... For those of you that do! But, I don't. Sometimes I like being a man, sometimes I like acting like a woman. But, it seems that the first thought of many men (at least the ones I've encountered on the net) is that I want sex with someone. I don't dress because of sex in it's physical nature. I think I dress because I love women and I love them so much that I sometimes like to look like one. Is that bad? Crossdressing doesn't mean "I want to screw someone".
Carry on.