Frankly, I don't relate to your sexuality much at all. Although I have a vivid sense of autogynephelia, and wonder what it would be like to have sex as a woman, I'm not a woman, and thus have no desire to actually have any kind of sex with men. I don't have the right plumbing, and I'm not willing to substitue orifices.
If it works for you, that's great. But you were right when you said it was complicated.
