in "My Husband Betty" about crossdresser choices of mates. She submits from her observation that crossdressers tend to be attracted to women that would not be supportive of crossdressing. This on the surface sounds odd, but what if we are looking for someone subliminally to "straighten us out"?
This would mean that what we should be doing is coming out to women prior to marriage and making sure they won't make out lives a living "H", "E", double hockey sticks afterwards.
No we can't stop this and I know it's a frustrating thing to my wife that I can't put a lid on it.
Love, Tracy
