Paige,
Good point:
"I don't believe that GG's need to have a "shade of bisexual grey in her in order to full appreciate her crossdressing husband." She needs many things to apprecaite and accept her husbands crossdressing, but bisexual activity doesn't necessarily have to be one of them."
When it comes to "appreciation" of my crossdressing as opposed to "putting up with" I think at the top of the list is love followed by tolerance. I have always felt that my crossdressing is very narcissistic and self indulgent. I know saying this opens up another can of worms and I don't want to derail this thread. I am fortunate that my wife not only tolerates but seems to like it but only on occasion. She asked me how often I would like to dress and I told here every other week. She said, how about every other month. So, she gets "into" it but occasionally and I always be sure it's on her terms.
First off, IMO, as I mentioned before, it's rare for someone to be absolutely straight. That's where the gray comes into play. My wife and I are sexual when I am dressed and that sex is very different than when I am not. It's not only me who is different but she is as well. I could go into details but I think that would break a forum rule.I can say it seems like more lesbian-like. Perhaps I am just fantasizing but she really is different.
So, I think there is a big difference between a GG appreciation of their crossdressing SO and having sex with their SO while transformed. Thoughts?
I love this thread!
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