I didn't say that asking is wrong.. I was just explaining to her why some of us might take offense.. that's all.
There's nothing wrong with asking, or being curious.. but some of us get very offended because of the way a question is worded.. or if the person asking the question ignores our responses and continues making their own assumptions (like what happened in the last thread)

But yeah, this lady did absolutely nothing wrong.
Once again, I was just explaining to her why some of us may take offense.

Did you read the last part of the paragraph you're quoting, by the way?