Well, you can dress how you like but unfortunately to at least find a woman, you will have to "man-up". Handle the talk about dressing as best you can...
I asked a woman I work with "So if you were dating a guy and whenever you got mad at him, he started crying and begging your forgiveness, would you like that?" She looked at me sternly and said "No if he doesn't have the balls to stand up for himself he is out the door."
No it was not someone I was trying to hook up with, just a lady at work that her and I are always talking about gender issues...
I know I am about as sensitive as a hungry alligator, so if I ever have to date again, I can hang up the dress and probably do alright.
Save the sensitive male junk for later IF it needs to come in...
Jonianne - What you wrote is exactly how NOT to get dates with women. Some guy who acts like that wouldn't be able to pick up a woman at even a women's prison.