Its funny you say that Joni...Now I am gonna duck out from this real quick before I get stoned..But the brain does control how much testosrone you produce.. The old theroy of a boy being to much of a sissy and forceing him to do more manly things..well it got shot down..But I can pretty much say you will rarley see a Cder changing a starter in an old Buick wearing a mini skirt and pumps. There is also a large percent of CDers who loose the urge after ejaculation..Hmmmm ..Hard to say why..