As a crossdresser I always love to wear femme clothes and dress as best I can. I have not worn a wig in several years aside from a visit at a CD studio for photos which was a one time experience.
So I live in a fantasy world when I dress where I am the only one I have to please and I dress for my inner being. I sneak peaks at myself in all types of dresses. I love baby doll, sheath, empire line, flapper, shift (little black dress), smock and tea dress styles. I know there are more. I feel great in pretty clothes. I am a girl in my fantasies.
In reality I am a guy in a dress but I know why I do it and I have come to understand why I do it. Reality is a way of knowing I am male but I have a female side. I am sensitive and accepting and would make a good listener. I also am good at keeping secrets because I am living a secret.
How do other crossdressers separate fantasy and reality with their own experiences?
Does reality hinder your crossdressing experience or do you live in the moment?
emmi