Well Tiffany, many GGs have breat implants and wear breast enhancers and breat forms, does that mean that they are living a lie ? WE are not and never will be 100% GGs, no matter if we go through SRS.
We are crossdressers - we love to express our feminine nature by emulating real GGs and by transforming ourselves into a representation of feminity. In so doing we are able to let out female hormones out. We are able to emotionally, for a time, enjoy the best of both male and female characteristics.
We are not GGs - you have to remember that - but in crossdressing, we can relieve the tension, frustration, anxiety, depression, desire, urge, that we have to wish that we were female. Therefore I do not see us as living a lie -we are not lying - we are expressing our crossdressing nature that we were born with - we were born with crossdressing desires - we did not ask for it - all we can do is accept ourselves for who we are.
We are crossdressers - we are not living a lie.
JoAnne Wheeler
