Quote Originally Posted by danar View Post
I would have to agree with this. You might consider sitting down with your sister, and talk to her about why she asked you to be her maid-of-honor; and what she expects from you. After you put her on the spot and she responds, you could tell her that it is the nicest thing that could have happened to you; and you love her for that. If she were to mention that she knew that you were a CD, then you could talk about it; other wise don't mention it as what was mentioned before, it might spoil her day.
Ditto,
I have a feeling your family knows already, and just waiting for you to come out of your shell..this could be a little push from them, maybe, just maybe..

I mean lets get real everyone!, How many weddings have Any of you gone to that had a male as a Maid of Honor??? Tell the truth now.. And I've Never heard of a male being invited to the girls party either unless he was a stripper.. all of this is not Normal by any means.

I think it's a good opportunity to have a little girl talk with your sister right NOW, and ask her about all this, (Like Sis, Why do you want me as your Maid of Honor, I mean Really, are you trying to tell me something?) and then let HER spill the beans, if you know what I mean. wink

But even if it does come all out, I think it would be for the best not to wear a gown at the wedding, because you don't want to take anything away from HER day.

BUT,,,,,,

IF she Asked you to, then that would be a whole different story.. wouldn't that be like a dream come true?

Something is up here for sure..so enjoy it if you can.& let us know either way, this could get very interesting.

Take Care,
Karen