Quote Originally Posted by JoAnne Wheeler View Post
For some reason, spouses seem to have a rule that says that we are not to have any secrests from them - it is ok for them to have secrets, but it is not ok for us - it is in their RULEBOOK, page 28

JoAnne Wheeler
Lorileah & Elizabeth sorry I did not want to particularly quote post 3 and be accused of picking on Joanne but it was that response that blew my gasket

and yes I am for honesty in full ..... but even i am realistic enough to realise that full disclosure off all facts are ann impossability but when it comes to CDing it is not like or comparable to eating an ice cream if you are on a diet and not being honest about it ....... this affects our lives as well, so surely we deserve the right to have some idea of what may have an effect on how we choose to live it ...............

I have in recent times walked away from post like post ~3 and caome back when calmer .... maybe being full off flu should have made me do it again, but right now I am helping two friends through a break up of marriages due to CDing and lieing ....... they are two decent people who do not deserve the hurt and devestation visited on them .............. now it may well have been that theuir partners were golfers/train spotters and the same hurt and pain over the various activities would have transpired, but it is cding and it's activities that are the cause, so to have Joanne to say that it is okay for us to hahve secrets and not you lot just made me lose it