Quote Originally Posted by deborah jane View Post
You,ll find if you are honest with your spouse, then she,ll be honest with you, you,ll also find if you hide things so will she.
Really? Do you really believe that? Not every wife is the same. To ascribe that to all wives (or even people in general), well, I just disagree.

I must admit, I am sorta confused, about the issue of "telling" ones wife. I have told mine btw. I have said this before, but, if the cding is sorta minor in your life, I don't feel that telling is necessary. If it's more important to you, than I am kind of unsure as to what is more important, complete total, bald-faced openness, or the right to privacy (this assumes nothing else going on but cding--no trysts,etc). Thus, I think this is a good thread to explore.