Emily this is a great question. I think doing research for those to network. The hardest part for me is convincing my wife that there are normal people out there that do this. If she could just see on her own, who, that they are normal and that it isnt something we can just turn off.
Since Ive come to this site, Ive come more comfortable with myself but it is just the internet. If I lived in a big town like Chicago or SF it would be great no problems there are plenty of resources, but how about those smaller cities that do have things, that I cannot find! That would be great.