What would you do when face with the ultimatum.

[kym]

You can stop anything if you want to bad enough.
It depends on where your priorities lie.

i beg to differ. I was given a choice, kym or my wife, after much soul searching i chose kym. I tried to stop many times, always went back to my true self no matter how hard i tried. Some would say i lacked willpower or drive to stop, but, it came down to what would make me happier, being married to someone who wanted to control me(and it was not only my dressing) or be more comfortable about who i was and the way i was born. Some can control the urge to dress,I cannot because its who i am. I was able to quit a lot of things(for example: smoking,drinking, illicit drugs) but those things were not who i was or who i wanted to be. My number one priority is being happy and being with someone who can accept me as a human, not necessarily as a man or a woman.