HA! Come on, he was at a TG club and you are worried that he might out you?
The only reason he would out you is if he has a big mouth about everything.
If he is not into gossip or spreading everyone's business, he won't say anything.
If he IS into gossip and such, then yeah you might want to keep low key.
You know how people make others to keep a "secret" and before long, the whole world knows?
ONe thing I have noticed about the TG life - I think all of us know about the unwritten confidentiality rule. Two reasons for this -
1) We have all been in the closet at some point and understand.
2) Since we are TG, it is no big deal to us how others dress. "John wears a dress to the club, yeah whatever... Hey did you hear about the DOW losing 6 points yesterday..."
It is a VERY rare admirer or sister who would out someone just for the gossip value.
I think your real concern should be, what if he wants to "be" with you cause he thinks you are hot.
