I've read a lot of posts here where so many are trying to figure out if their dressing makes them gay.
Sadly, the public perception seems to echo that response, and all too loud and clear. Maybe some of you are caught up in too many other's uninformed opinions.
Myself and many more of us on here started dressing before puberty, long before we even knew what "gay" was.
Hell, I didn't even know what sex was the first time I slipped on a pair of stockings.
What motivated me to do it, I do not know. I only know that when I did it, it felt right and I continued to do it for the next 50 plus years whenever the opportunity presented itself.
Years later, we're now asking if we're gay.
Not me.
And I'm okay with all of it.
I never felt I was odd or different for pursuing it.
Any thoughts?