The post is about cd'ing and how it stops you from cheating on your wife,yes?
Ok, heres how simple it is.CD'ing or any other, need, urge,hobby, desire,is completley irrelevant to the urge for cheating.
Your post was insinuating that all have at some stage the urge to cheat. ...And that CD'ing has been a deterrant for you not to cheat on your wife.
No, i dont know how your relationship is, be it good or bad, and, Yes,it is your choice to wether you tell your wife that you CD,rather than hide and possibly lie to her about what your doing.
Is reading romance novels stopping me from cheating on my partner?? erm? no.i dont have the urge to cheat, and if i did i would either be talking to him about it as obviously there is problem, or if all fails, end the relationship.i wouldnt be using a vent to not cheat..
Why compare CDing to not cheating?
In one sense your post i feel shouldnt be given so much attention, as to me you have tarred all men with same brush, insinuating that all have the urge to cheat,and
2) CD'ing is a deterrant.And in another sense im glad your post is getting read,as with everyones replies and opinions,as hopefuly even ,just one other person reading this that has the selfish 'all about me' attitude that you do, realises cheating is cheating, simple as.And CD'ing is completely irrelevant to it. loren
Relationships,, TRUST,HONESTY,and ofcourse RESPECT, vital ingredients.
