This should be a wakeup call, for all those who argue that honesty is the best policy. I have seen many dozens of stories like this, in the several years I have been on this forum. As I've posted many times, for every wife or SO who is "OK with it", a dozen are not. And for all of you who think your wives or SOs are OK with it, they may be just biding their time, until they can sort things out, and make other plans. Women rarely announce their plans in advance, like "Well I'll be leaving in a few months or years, as soon as I can find a better deal". They usually leave first, and let you know, after they are safely gone! And all those who advocate "coming out" and "honesty is the best policy", are strangely quiet on threads like this one.
