Quote Originally Posted by Nicki B View Post
Sometimes, it's just easy, for clarity, to refer to 'him' and 'her'. In reality, gender isn't just either/or anyway, but that's the way society assumes it is?

I guess I'm saying it's not just the trans community that works on that presumption..
Society certainly assumes that gender is a binary state. It is certainly not just the trans community that works on that presumption; I guess I wonder why we would work on that presumption at all. I would guess that only a small percentage of people here understand gender to be binary. Certainly we cannot expect society to become more aware if we are not going to.