Well Kate, I think a lot of us "live" with the same issues - I spend an aweful

lot of money on JoAnne - my Spouse resents it and has told me so on

numerous, numerous, numerous occasions - however, I am still buying

JoAnne clothing, shoes, expensive make-up, etc - even to this day - I am

so caught up in my own PINK FOG that i do not want to stop - I think that

I am trying to make up for all the time that I have wanted JoAnne to be free

but was frustrated by my spouse

JoAnne Wheeler