As of this writing there are 40 posts here... and you've written 15 of them.
Christina what I am going to say here will not be an easy pill for you to swallow and I may definetly be in the minority of what the other girls in the ra-ra- section cheering you on are saying to you.

I first saw hte title of your thread last night and spent much of today thinking about how I would respond to you in a delicate but forthright manner, not wishing to hurt your feelings or burst your bubble but to pull you down from that obvious pink fog that you are excitedly into now and up until August for your reuinon.

If there is a sub-title for this thesis it would be " You are totally responsible for your own actions and consequences that may result in those actions"
Going to your 20th high School reunion dressed? Are you freakin' NUTS. Do you have any idea of the adverse PERMANENT effect it will have of you, your reputation and everlasting bad memories some of your classmates will still have when years from now they open their yearbook and point out to their wife or kids" See the picture of "Joe" there... well he came to our reunion ' dressed as a woaman". Ha,ha. ha. unheard by you hundreds of miles away.
I actually knew someone who went to his 20th reunion dressed as "Teri" with his wife and he told me how great it was and how everone thought it was cool, and coming up to his wife and questioning here and all. Persoanlly I think he told me what he wanted to beleieve and not actually what happened.

Christina you may at this moment be an excited giggliy little girl with blinders on, sexually stimulated and getting a 4 month woody over this but not realising that you have other people to consider here. It not all about YOU, its their reunion too, and they may feel greatly imposed on by being in what they thought would be a comfortable social event to all of a sudden feel intruded by you because of your special needs and desires.
Is that fair to them Christina???.
Many there have never been in the company of a transvestite before in their lives and may as many do mistake it with a gay drag queen. Then the slurs and terms will fly either within earshot or under their breath... " look at the faggot ther". What about people guys and girls who were your clasmates who you knew well and were really close to and have been out of touch with for 20 years. Their first reacquaintence is with a guy in a dress! Are you prepared to be laughed at, shunned, ignored, verballedy abused by a bunch of liquored up ex-jocks would would like to rtovoke you and mock you.?
Did you think about the other iside of the coin Christina? Well you should, and be prepared for any oth the consequences that evening.

Which bathroom will you you. Can you see walkinng into the mens room, hiking up your dress to pee. You may not emerge in the same condition you went in. You can't use the ladies room because they will scream and feel thier privacy has been intruded upon.
These are harsh realities that must be considered because its like when you tell somebody about you being a CD you can't take it back. In your case it would be show and tell and I feel it would be terribly embarrasing for you and you would feel humililated.
It would ruin many other peoples evening there too. What table will you decide to sit at, and will those people feel comfortable and welcome you.

Again Christina,this is my very long two cents and I don't want to hurt you but beat you over the head with tough (sisterly) love.
Think, Think alot between now and August.

Blessings and good Luck

Megan