The answer, "yes or no," probably depends on who is answering the question - not so much on who is asking - and says more about the person deciding than the person being tagged.
I think Katie has "a" good way to figure things out, but then there's the "quantity vs. quality" issue that gets in the way of making it strictly a math thing.
Frankly, I'm glad you're bringing the "gay thing" up here again.
Why are so many people worried about gay choices or gay-ness?
We're all people... Live and let live. Get happy, project happy.
Thank you!
I break the issue into two issues: "sex," and/or life choice.
If you're bi, it's about the sex; "Wham, bam, thank you Sam."
If you're gay, it's about a same gender relationship, preferably with the same person in most of the rest of your life as well.
Either way, it's your business what you do and your decision which road you travel in your pursuit of happiness.
Find something that works, repeat as necessary.
Good luck.
