I talked to her a bit more today....seems the operative is "he's a crossdresser"...the real reason si she doesn't want to be saddled with a husband tha tcan't get it up anymore and she wants to go otu and party and be able to jump someone when she feels like it and have his in working order....
If she goes with that reason to family friend etc it makes her look bad...if she goes with my OMG my husband is now a crossdresser it amkes her look like the poor vivtim....in other words ito accomplish her task of being free I get thown under the bus when it comes to the "cause"...
Bottom line it appears she wants to get back into the world of the living and drop dead daddy here for something better and more functional ...
Oh well such is life....
