Ultimate feminine experience?

[dawnmarrie1961]

My ultimate fem experience happened a few yrs back. I was suffering from a bout of severe depression. I checking into an emergency room for help. After filling out all the necessary paperwork, in the lobby. ( I know for certain that I gave her to correct name.) I said "Don" and the nurse wrote down "Dawn". I guess. I got an arm bracelet strapped to my wrist that said "Mrs.".(I didn't look at it, so I didn't know about it. )The nurse gave me a gown told me to strip. She pulled the current around so I could have some privacy. Later the doctor came in and examined me and asked me a bunch of questions. He may have called me "Mame", I don't remember, I was too tired to pick up on it. They drew some blood. Than led me to the bathroom to pee in a cup, probably to test for drugs. Almost 6 hrs later somebody took a good look at my chart & realized the mistake they had made. They were really embarrassed . I said " Don't worry about. This happens to me all the time." They switched my bracelet for a corrected one. I asked the nurse if I could keep the old one. "Just for laughs." She obliged. A couple hours later, after talking to the resident student psychologist and assuring everybody that I was no longer intend on "doing myself in" as was allowed to leave with a handful of prescriptions for anti depressants, which I never intended to fill. I hate pills. I just needed someone to talk to.

I still have that bracelet, somewhere around here. It's a reminder for me that ,sometimes, its OK to ask for help when your need it.

Wait a min? Was this supposed to be a "fantasy" experience.
Sorry, girls. Looks like I messed up again.

Maybe I can find the bracelet & scan it in so you can see it. :D

[BreenaDion]

Simple ... Not being afraid of the front door. My new life begins at 6-16-09 my first therepist app. Already getting so relieved an tingles , seams problems have taken a back seat. Retired and getting dressed most of the day.

[Kate Simmons]

I really had to think about this one myself. Based on what a friend told me in regard to this, my ultimate would be berating my slightly overweight, treat loving hubby for raiding my stash of yoplait yogurt in the fridge and not replacing it. Doesn't get much better than that, but I digress.

[Chrissie P]

This has happened and I'll never forget it but its a bit naughty. After sleeping with a man putting your head in his chest and ... I can't go further. Eventually we fell asleep together holding each other. I felt like a woman so much and was treated as such. Beautiful!

Yep, under the covers with the man you care for... definately the ultimate.

[Sally24]

Since we only get to choose one, and I'm thinking something we could actually do, I would opt for a wedding. Not the bride, but a bridesmaid. I think the preparations, fittings, bridal shower, and then the wedding and reception is a pivotal part in growing up and bonding with your gal pals. I almost made Maid of Honor once and hope that one of my TG friends will have a TG wedding at some point.

Wife wasn't interested in redoing our vows in reverse, or with both of us in wedding gowns.

[Deedee Dupree]

Being in a beauty pageant or anything similar to being accepted as a girl among a group of GG's doing "our thing" would be near the top of the list.

but after thinking about this for a while and because there is little left to be realized it is:

.....being at peace with femininity itself, regardless of the particular expression, or how often expressed, 100% of the time.

dd

[Julie513]

For me it would probably be the wedding experience also. To be dressed and the center of everyone's attention, plus the activities of a large reception. You get the "royal ball" treatment with the food and dancing, plus the anticipation of what will happen when the clock strikes midnight (if you know what I mean)

[Sarasometimes]

I also think it would going through all of the getting married preparations. I am talking being able to pretty much all of them. Gown shopping, picking out bridesmaids dresses, flowers, multiple hair and makeup rehearsals, night out with the girls, say at a spa for the bachelorette party and getting cute undies and such (not into guys, at all), all the grooming steps, waxing of the bod and brows, ears getting pierced. Wedding day prep at a top end salon, getting buttoned all the way up in my rather traditional full gown. WoW what a fantasy!
second choice would be being a bridesmaid, cause then all of this would be necessary to be in the wedding.

[tracigirl_tv]

The "ultimate" for me: being in a room, or maybe on a bus or train. Noticing that a man is noticing ME.....crossing my legs as my skirt rides up a bit....loving that now he's REALLY noticing me (just the way I've looked at women too *smile*). Smiling on the inside as he finds an excuse to sit next to me and start a conversation....

ahhhhh.....

[Melinda G]

[jenna_woods]

oh the wedding for sure, me in my wedding dress wow

[sometimes_miss]

Hmmm. The ultimate feminine experience. Not being able to open a jar? Getting my period while out somewhere, and not having any tampons or pads? How about a mammogram? Having intercourse finished before I get my orgasm while my exhausted partner falls asleep? Spending hours on my hair, outfit, makeup, and being glanced at for half a second and told that I look 'fine'? Being a bridesmaid and breaking a heel while walking down the aisle? Spending a whole evening pulling up one of those idiotic 'strapless' gowns?
Oh, there are lots of those wonderful purely 'feminine' experiences.

[Paula Wilder]

For me it would be to drive my new pink car to my first "party" appointment in my new job as a full time Mary Kay saleslady! I'd also love to work the MAC counter and dress to the nines every day for work - lovely! Ultimately, I'd retire to the senior home where I'd be the eccentric lady that wears all the makeup, too tight clothing, beautiful jewelry and flirts with all the old men every day - what a way to go!

To be less humerous about it - I dearly love the week I take each year traveling as a woman fulltime. By the end of the week, I am very feminine, and last year, got picked up for dinner and drinks at a Kentucky Applebees - still enjoy the memories!

[RobynP]

Ur doin it wrong. It's:

"Go get me a beer, woman, the game is on. And while you're in the kitchen, start up my Hungry Man XXL. And bring in some chips, dip and vienna sausages, I need an appetizer before that."

chug-a-lug

"Woman, bring me another beer. Buuuurp. Fart."

Veronica
Rondelle (Ron) Rogers Jr.

The ultimate feminine experience would be receiving monthly alimony and child support checks after throwing the bum out for treating me like that!

Robyn P.

[TxKimberly]

The ultimate feminine experiance for me was the one i came so close to having last week with Sheila, but i backed down from because i didn't feel ready just yet.

We had planned to go to an Italian resturant, with me fully dressed like this Attachment 90697

Sheila was also going to dress to the "nines" as well and we were going to have a meal out together as Sheila and Debs.

Deborah, the saddest thing about your wish is that it is so very easy to achieve. Go on, get out there and go to that restaurant. Pick a decent place in a decent area, and you will be just fine and will be treated like gold.


I like the ideas that Tracy and Kathi mention below:

And . . . I would love to go out on a "girls night out", with FAB's. Where they accept me as one of their own. This would be great.

-Tracy

To me, the most feminine experience is the one I am having right at that moment. I feel that it's not what I do when I go out, it's the fact that I do go out. I go shopping, to antique stores, museums, restaurants, get makeovers (or consultations, as they call them these days ), and more.
Kathi

[Tiffany Tuesday]

This is mainly directed towards CD's who do the whole "nine yards" with wigs, clothes and makeup and who go out and intermingle. What, according to your opinion and your perception, would be the ultimate feminine experience for you to have and why do you say this? Remember, it's a feminine experience according to your perception, it doesn't necessarily mean it's how FAB folks really feel. I'm mostly interested in what you feel would be an ultimate feminuine experience and why.

Hi Arianna,
i have done for real all the things mentioned in this thread and so much more it makes me blush and get hot even remembering them. The sexiest was when my then bf tied my legs over ears to a brass bed and we did what marrieds do. The most romantic when i married my ex-guy. The most rewarding, being a model. But weirdly the most genuinely feminine experience is not the sweetest, it is when a girl in a restroom asked me if i had a spare tampon in my purse ... and i had!

[MissConstrued]

The sexiest was when my then bf tied my legs over ears to a brass bed and we did what marrieds do.

Argue for a while, then go to sleep?

[Tiffany Tuesday]

Argue for a while, then go to sleep?

Hoots, so true ... change that to "lovers"

[joannemarie barker]

i would love to be wined and dined by a man who treated me like a real girl then takes me home where i get to show my gratitude

[Pattie O]

My ultimate fem experience would be to get fully dressed up and go out to dinner and the movies then to a nightclub for some dancing after.Alternative would be to have a full bridal make over and have photos taken.So it might be nice to spend a honeymoon in Paris or maybe in Venice!(with my SO of course)

[Rogina B]

If it is only for a week,then I am in the Mercedes sportscar[no kids yet] and not the Mercedes SUV,with 2 kids and a dog.A week of all about me! Thick checkbook and fresh credit cards,never need to worry.Hair,nails,massage,facial appointment juggling around shopping,home decorators and lunchdates as well as the trainer at the gym.Looking good to make my man feel good.And I have to be happy inside,spending makes me happy! The power of the pussycat is the ultimate fem experience that I would love to have.

[Stephanie-L]

My ultimate would be to travel somewhere nice (Europe, Las Vegas, a cruise ship, etc) and go to an upscale spa and spend the day getting pampered. Start off with waxing, getting rid of all of this unwanted hair, a massage, mani/pedi, hair, facial, makeup, the works. I would come out looking great (LOL, like that will ever happen). The bride idea is up there on the list too, I just love the look and feel of formal satin gowns.....Stephanie

[cjflgirl]

I guess I have had the ultimate experience I got married to my lovely wife enfemme. We had our wedding in Las Vegas it was a wonderful experience walking throught the hotel in my dress and high heels. Knowing I was being watched by everyone in the lobby was wonderful, then getting into the limo for the ride to the wedding chappel it was something I will cherish always. I couldn't have asked for a better way to get married or a more wonderful woman.

[docrobbysherry]

I'm going to have to DIG REALLY DEEP to imagine ANY OF THESE!:brolleyes:

#1. Have a GG girlfriend. Who treats me as her lesbian girlfriend. With ALL the accompanying fringe benefits!

#2. Same as Tracy's. Going clubbing, etc., with actual GGs and being accepted as one of them.

#3. Same as #2 above. Except going out with other CD/TS/TGs.

Since I have an extreme CD handicap, #1 and #2 r fairly impossible!
BUT, I'm HOPING to pull off #3 in Atlanta, in Sep! And thinking about THAT possibility, has me feeling ABSOLUTELY GIDDY with excitement!!!!

[Miranda09]

I guess I have had the ultimate experience I got married to my lovely wife enfemme. We had our wedding in Las Vegas it was a wonderful experience walking throught the hotel in my dress and high heels. Knowing I was being watched by everyone in the lobby was wonderful, then getting into the limo for the ride to the wedding chappel it was something I will cherish always. I couldn't have asked for a better way to get married or a more wonderful woman.

How cool was that!!