I don't know if it would work for everyone, but I do the pop-the-boys-inside/bend-under/tuck kinda thing (not the press everything inside and tape kinda thing).
I find that if I hold it in place with panties and a girdle-type garment I can enjoy the experience immensely. Achieving a "Big O" this way seems way more intense than the more traditional guy way (although that's pretty good too!). Part of the intensity may come from the wider distribution of sensation in that area since the most sensitive spot is folded under and not directly accessible.
In general, men may be too "results" driven and have expectations of "results" every time. I think that on average women achieve "results" about one time out of three (with some scoring every time and some not at all). As a result, women seem to enjoy the "road trip" far more than men, who are always trying to speed directly toward the "destination." Taking that slower road and enjoying the scenery along the way can be a lot of fun.
In addition, many women seem to report scoring an "O" without even direct stimulation of the major triangle at all. I don't know how true those things are, never having achieved "results" that way, but have heard claims of "O"'s from breast stimulation and even from oral enjoyment of their partner. Perhaps our panel of GG's can weigh in on those claims.
Bottom line, at least for me, is that tucked "results" take longer and are more difficult to achieve, but WOW! they're so worth it!
P.S. - Many women say they enjoy very pleasurable sensations from the use of personal massage devices, either by their partners or by their own hand, and the tucked CD may find this very pleasurable as well.
