What language is that? I've never heard of "tosh".
cd-ing is a choice. Anyone who says it's not is making excuses for what they do. Do you feel you need to make an excuse? Why not just be honest and say it's your choice to cd because that's what you want to do?
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.