My girlfriend and I actually met at a BDSM toy bazaar. It was my first venture into BDSM and I loved it. I won't go into detail here, but sometimes restraints are a part of it.

If you're near Atlanta in september there's the Southern Comfort Conference, that we're all probably aware of and then in October there's DomCon. I'll be at both events. At DomCon you will find crossdressers and even sissy maids and of course on Saturday night there will be play time at 1763, a dungeon that's in Atlanta.