Quote Originally Posted by GINA-CD View Post
This happened all the time to me, and it didn't have anything to do with dressing, just a million other things that suddenly became "more important" than my (soon to be ex-) wife or her plans.
I used to do this, fit her requests in as much as possible but at the end that sucks your soul... you just can't do that forever, sometimes you have to put yourself before anything else.
Gina is right. There needs to be a balance, cause I don't think anyone finds it satisfying to live for someone else all the time.

My wife used to try playing guilt trip games because of my dressing but quickly learned it was not going to work. Of course her favorite thing to say was "it is embarrasing". We don't go out and do much as a couple anyways.