Even if we can quit, we hurt others by quitting!
We are conditioned to assume quitting helps others but the opposite is true.
We hurt our families by denying them the long-term benefit of having a CD family member. We look at the short-term pain and ignore that its a growth-pain.
We hurt society by not forcing it to accept the reality of CDing and undo the removal of CD culture that once was accepted.
We hurt the entire next generation of future CDs! They need us to push the borders and make life easier on them. If we pass the buck and selfishly quit, thats right i said it selfishly quit, then we make them suffer our due.
Every people that have gone from severely hated to socially more accepted had to pay a price, as unjust as that is, of struggle to make gains. Racial minorities, persecuted religions, womens rights... all had to make a choice, between selfish short-term status quo and keeping head bowed and not making waves or subjecting families and friends to stress or doing whats right and making a better world for their children and everyone elses.
The fact is quitting or attempting to is the selfish choice!
It hurts everyone!
