Batty,
You're obviously passionate about this, but even after all this, I'm not sure exactly what it is you want to fight about, or exactly what form this fight should take. Crossdressing isn't against the law. There are countless accounts right on this board of many of us going about our lives in ordinary and not-so-ordinary ways dressed as we choose at the time. In my own experience, the only thing lacking is that not everybody likes us. I think we can make a lot more progress by demonstrating that we're not threatening, not perverted, that we're productive citizens that lead ordinary lives, etc..
I'm not sure who it is who'd respond well to being forced to accept or like anyone. Obviously I don't want to fight anybody. A pacifist, I suppose. Given my, uhummm.... proclivities, I don't suppose I'd be offended to be referred to as a p#$$y!