Sierra, how much have you really sat down with her and had a serious, in depth discussion about your CDing? It seems like she's setting some very biased, and intolerant rules here. I know she is an important part of your life, but a marriage is supposed to be a 2 way street. I'm NOT saying force it down her throat...so to speak. I am saying take time to discuss the situation and maybe at the very least, come to some compromises. If you appraoch it slowly, without a defensive attitude, things could change for the better. Good luck hun.