I told my SO in the first year and a half of our marriage. She asked me why I hadn't told her while dating and I simply replied 1: I didn't want her to think of me as a freak and 2: What I done was not as important as a relationship w/someone. She just said that she would not have looked at me as a freak since she use to hang out w/goth's and had been one herself since the guys sometimes wore dresses. At first I did push it to hard wanting her to see me dressed but it made her push me away, so I backed off and let time do it's work. She is still not 100% accepting but she does accept it to a degree, but to answer this Thread I put my CD'ing on the back burner for the love of my life.
