Quote Originally Posted by TGMarla View Post
Quite simply, I was afraid to tell her about my crossdressing because I was afraid she'd run away and I'd never see her again. Over the course of the last 16 years, my fears proved correct. She knows I crossdress, but had she known it when we first met, she would have left. And even though she still disapproves, at least we are still together in a loving relationship.
So you feel good about having trapped her in a "loving" relationship with you? Because of your lie (of omission), she missed the chance to marry someone she could be compatible with.

Sorry, but it's unbelievable to me that you don't regret not telling her the truth.