I have a retarded daughter who feels no one can understand her (she's mostly correct) and who thinks that proves she's smarter than everyone else. Oh! The implications!
Is she really retarded? If she isn't, and you're just using the word pejoratively, then I agree with everything you said.
...though my retarded brother is a little offended at your use of the word.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.