There is this [SIZE="4"]HERE[/SIZE] from the GG's which might give you a clue to what she may be feeling and thinking
or this [SIZE="4"]HERE[/SIZE] which was written by Marla GG that might help you
You could always tell her about this site and the fact we have a GG only part of the forum F.A.B (Females At Birth) that she can apply to join after she had done an intro in the intro section and a further 9 post on the forum, she will be able to come and talk with us GG's who have been/are going, through what she is feeling nowto you both and good luck
Edited to add .................... once you tell her, make sure you give her time to take it in, answer her with total honesty from there on .... if you don't know say so, do not lie. I t may take some time for her to come round, she may never accept it, ot it may turn out all okay, will keep fingers crossed for you both