The closest I come is girlish.. at the my highest I would say I was over fifty percent girlish.. but more now that I am moving away from being able to dress very often, I am so much less girlish that I feel like I am just a guy who likes to wear womens clothes without the need to dress full to that end of the spectrum.. to each their own as far as what they feel and look.. or look to achieve that feeling of being.. is that a tuna or herring.. anyway it all reads the same from here.. a nods as good as a wink to a bat..